varying some strings

I'm adding a whole bunch of extra starting/ending strings (first screenshot) to the notification if there are certain relbits between the actor and target sims, just to make it feel a little more alive (and totally not procrastinating the .json part of it... I've got saving and loading sorted out as in the second screenshot, but I haven't managed to get rels to work when you're using this loaded in list).

I've also handled the multiple relations part now! I seriously doubt that you'll ever get the same relation down a hundred different paths (like, a centuple nth cousin) but it can handle everything up to that - now the notif will say "double second cousin" instead of "second cousin and second cousin". There's a new questionable marriage in the extended family in my save (third screenshot) which made for some good testing, and I did a few more within the family and with a ghost from several generations back.